April 2008     
                   Reflection                        

                          The Soul of Blessing


“How we think determines so much of what happens to us. Sometimes we are unaware of the most powerful truths about ourselves, for instance, that each of us has a soul. We go on with our everyday lives as if we are completely dependent on our own ability, though aware of how frail and limited that can be. The world of spirit is strange; it is subtle and concealed; it will wait for our calling. If you never think of your soul, but confine it to some vague region of spiritual fantasy, you squander an infinite energy at the heart of your life. Once you awaken to your soul, you know that you are no longer alone; nor are you at the mercy of your own frailty and limitation. Awakening to your soul, you begin to learn another way of being in the world. The old barriers no longer confine you, the old wounds no longer name you, and the fears no longer claim you. Not that all of this simply disappears in some new, born again conversion. A blessing does not erase the difficult or abolish it, but it does reach deeper to draw out the hidden fruit of the negative. The old patterns do not evaporate, but become transformed under the persuasion of the soul’s new affection.
This is the secret heart of the whole adventure of blessing…Blessing is a more robust and grounded presence; it issues from the confident depth of the hidden self, and its vision and force can transform what is deadlocked, numbed and inevitable. When you bless someone, you literally call the force of their infinite self into action.”

            ––excerpt from John O’Donohue’s most recent book,
                 To Bless the Space Between Us 
                  (2008, Doubleday, NY) p. 205